Making a tough school drop off a little easier
Dropping kids off at daycare or school can be so tough, especially after an extended break for the holiday season. One common mistake parents make is to sneak away when the child isnโt looking. However, the best thing to do is actually to say a proper goodbye, and put the focus on your next connection […]
When should I stop following wake windows and start following the clock?
There was a point in time when I would live and die on wake windows. Or, at least I tried to. You see, sleep trainers promote wake windows as an exact science. You can follow a perfectly curated, handy chart, and just like that, your baby’s sleep will miraculously improve. โจ ๐๐๐ช๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ โจ ๐๐ข๐ฃ๐ช๐ฆ๐ด ๐ข๐ณ๐ฆ […]
The Connection Between Iron Deficiency and Sleep

One of the things I love about a non-sleep training approach to sleep is that it allows space to consider all of the external factors that may be influencing a child’s sleep. In our house, this has been so critical to helping our family get better sleep. For my middle son, in particular, we have […]
Being responsive is not a bad habit
Hard truth: Some of the information presented by the sleep training industry sounds so logical, that at one point in time, I even believed it myself. The problem is, much of it is based on just nothing at all. Take this little doozy, about the ‘crutch’ you’re creating by supporting your child at bedtime. The […]
I’m here to normalize ๐ป๐ผ๐ฟ๐บ๐ฎ๐น infant sleep

When I was a first time mom, the parenting landscape looked a lot different than it does today. Responsive parenting was not mainstream, and there was a lot of pressure to follow certain ‘rules’. When my baby was 6 months old, we did the only thing we were told we could do about our โsleep […]
On Eat, Play, Sleep…
If youโve worried about whether your newborn needs to be on a schedule, youโve probably come across the most commonly recommended schedule: the infamous โeat, play, sleepโ, or EASY (eat, awake time, sleep, you time) routine. This typically fits best if you already have an easygoing (no pun intended!) baby, who likely would have fallen […]
๐๐ช๐ง๐จ๐๐ฃ๐ ๐ฉ๐ค ๐จ๐ก๐๐๐ฅ ๐๐จ ๐ฃ๐ค๐ฉ ๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ฉ ๐ฉ๐๐๐ฉ ๐ฃ๐๐๐๐จ ๐ฉ๐ค ๐๐ ๐๐ง๐ค๐ ๐๐ฃ.
If you can believe it, these words actually came out of someoneโs mouth ๐ฑ It wonโt surprise you that this golden tidbit ๐came from the sleep trainer we used, during a takeover on an account I follow. Skipping your sunscreen once isnโt ๐๐๐ฃ๐๐๐ง๐ค๐ช๐จ, but it may have undesirable side effects. Drinking and cutting your own […]
On trying to separate breastfeeding from sleep…
If youโve been here a while, you already know that when my oldest was a baby, we sleep trained her. We had no idea that we had any other option other than to be โgood parentsโ and sleep train, or โbad parentsโ and let things go without โteachingโ our daughter to sleep. As โgood parentsโ, […]
Gentle is not the same as supportive

Are you feeling confused about all the different options when it comes to sleep methods? If so, you’re not alone. The sleep training industry has seen a shift, where parents are expecting more responsive techniques. Clever marketing tactics are being used to position the same old sleep training as new and fresh, and one common […]
Transitioning from a crib to a toddler bed
Hands up if you have a toddler ready to transition out of their crib or toddler bed? ๐๐ฝโโ๏ธ๐๐ฝโโ๏ธโ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ Before making any changes to sleeping arrangements, consider whether the transition is for the good of your child/family, or if you’re feeling external pressure to make a move (read: ignore the shady advice that the toddler sleeping in […]