October, 2021

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Sleep myths

Drop a ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿฝ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿฝ below if youโ€™re tired of being bombarded with sleep training myths

In all honesty, this audio is in jest and Iโ€™m not calling anyone names – but I do think all parents would be much better served if we collectively (and I donโ€™t mean those of us in the sleep industry, I mean as a society) did a better job of educating parents on biological norms as they relate to infant sleep.

Iโ€™m tired – on behalf of all new parents – of having to dispel these common, misleading and outdated myths:

โ€ผ๏ธ There is no magic age when babies no longer need to eat at night
โ€ผ๏ธ There is no such thing as teaching babies to โ€œself sootheโ€
โ€ผ๏ธ Babies are not capable of manipulation
โ€ผ๏ธ Parents are not capable of giving too much support, connection or love
โ€ผ๏ธ Overtiredness is not the answer to every sleep problem
โ€ผ๏ธ There is no magic schedule (forget the โ€œeat play sleepโ€ or โ€œ2-3-4โ€ routines)
โ€ผ๏ธ Parents are in control of their babies biological functions, and can โ€œteachโ€ their child to sleep

There are absolutely things that can be done to improve sleep. This is true both in cases where there are extenuating circumstances creating the disturbances (think: oral ties, birth experience, nutrient deficiencies etc.), and when there are challenges with the schedule. ๐˜ฝ๐™ช๐™ฉ ๐™ž๐™ฃ ๐™ฃ๐™š๐™ž๐™ฉ๐™๐™š๐™ง ๐™ค๐™› ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š๐™จ๐™š ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™˜๐™š๐™จ ๐™™๐™ค ๐™ฅ๐™–๐™ง๐™š๐™ฃ๐™ฉ๐™จ ๐™ฃ๐™š๐™š๐™™ ๐™ฉ๐™ค โ€œ๐™ฉ๐™š๐™–๐™˜๐™โ€, โ€œ๐™ฉ๐™ง๐™–๐™ž๐™ฃโ€ ๐™ค๐™ง ๐™ค๐™ฉ๐™๐™š๐™ง๐™ฌ๐™ž๐™จ๐™š ๐™ช๐™จ๐™š ๐™จ๐™š๐™ฅ๐™–๐™ง๐™–๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ค๐™ฃ ๐™ฉ๐™ค ๐™ž๐™ข๐™ฅ๐™ง๐™ค๐™ซ๐™š ๐™จ๐™ก๐™š๐™š๐™ฅ.

It is not necessary. It never was. And we need to stop telling parents it is the only way.

So if youโ€™re tired of being told your instincts are wrong, that you need to just let your baby find their way, or worse – that youโ€™re getting in the way of better sleep – youโ€™re in the right place. Drop a ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿฝ if you agree or a ๐Ÿ‘‹๐Ÿผ to say hi!

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Cayla Solomon
Holistic Sleep Coach

Certified holistic sleep coach working with babies, children, and adults across Canada and worldwide. My approach is evidence-based and responsive โ€” and never involves sleep training.

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Cayla Solomon
Holistic Sleep Coach

Iโ€™m Cayla Solomon โ€” a certified holistic sleep coach specialising in responsive, root-cause sleep support for babies, children, and adults. I work with families and individuals across Canada and worldwide, and Iโ€™ve spent years studying why the standard sleep training advice so often fails the people itโ€™s supposed to help. My approach draws on sleep science, attachment research, and the conviction that understanding your body โ€” or your childโ€™s โ€” is always the first step. I donโ€™t believe in one-size-fits-all solutions, and Iโ€™m not afraid to say so.

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